| 1. People Pleaser Extraordinaire. “I want people to be afraid of how much they love me.” |
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| 2. This is exactly how it feels whenever anyone says, “Sorry, I can’t make it.” |
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| 3. Sometimes, he just can’t help himself. |
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| 4. The footnote of almost every comment he makes is “I should not have said that.” |
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| 5. When in doubt, play a game. “‘Battleship’ got me through my parents’ divorce. ‘Operation’ got me through my vasectomy.” |
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| 6. No big words allowed. “K.I.S.S. = Keep It Simple, Stupid.” |
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| 7. Hyperfocus in romantic relationships. |
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| 8. Loyal to a fault. |
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| 9. “Like an improv conversation. An improversation.” |
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| 10. Priorities are hard. |
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| 11. It can be challenging for others to keep up. |
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| 12. Procrastination Station. |
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| 13. Relentless persistence. |
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| 14. A flair for the dramatic #emotionalhyperarousal |
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| 15. I said crises trigger our focus. I did not say that focus is always on helping other people. |
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| 16. That sweet tooth. The ADHD brain craves sugar and carbs more intensely because of its dopamine imbalance. |
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| 17. Very low Bullshit Tolerance. |
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| 18. Doing stuff he doesn’t want to do is literal torture. |
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| 19. His ideals sometimes don’t match realistic capabilities. |
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| 20. Despite his flaws and insecurity, he’s always looking for that positive spin. And he extends that to others too. |
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